Save My marriage 2019/2020

  I don't understand how it's possible to live with someone for so long, suffer with them, go through hard times together and at the end get tired of going on, well it's in human nature to let go despite if there's love or not. We all have individual reasons for our actions but it's best never to start the journey if only you knew the end. I was going through a happy marriage for over 16 years, even when it wasn't at it best but we were but happy together until i started experiencing a change in his time with me and our kids and every time i asked what was wrong he always take it as a fight and later on we was constant. One day when he was sleeping his phone was ringing and so i came close to check who it was and it was another woman calling him and when the call wasn't answered she left a message asking him to come over that he misses him. I was furious and so i woke him up to ask who she was and he told me it's another woman he was having affair with f...